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I married the wrong person,...Searching the planet for my Princess of Thorns

Please dont judge me for being currently married while searching...if you have ever been married/divorced you should understand what it means to be with the wrong person. Its an intimate hell!
Do you find yourself ignored and treated like crap from your spouse? I do. I seek a friend, a women who is married and in need of something different. I will divorce my mean wife by this time next year ... and actually would not mind getting remarried to a women whos interests are similare too my own. Please understand ive been monagamous for 18years married last four..... im not a dog, womanizer, pimp, or any other catch phrase.... im just a middle aged , over weight middle class man who finds himself in a relationship with a verbally abusive fridged wife. Im more than likely going too divorce her by tax season next year, but the rest of this year is looking like the last two... ignored and disrespected. Im not here trolling with my junk ... i honestly hope too meet a women who is in need of some monogamous friendship outside the home. I feel like im dying inside ... day by day. My name is David, i have a career in the medical surgical field , work in Hill Crest. Im not religious, humour is my copilot very intelligent, empathtic, conversationalist, relaxed, non vulgar. Im a big guy, wear 52" suit jacket, built kind of like a line man... 6ft 270lbs, brown skin (english, native american, hispanic mixed mutt).....i dont speak spanish but was attempting too learn Cyrillic. Enjoy nature, art, history, sciences. Well i guess i could mention im without bugs and had a vasectomy over a decade ago. Enjoy museums, art , history, cultural and theological studies. I do enjoy smoking MJ but not a requirement, and it should be notted that i can go from romantic foot rubs to weilding a flogger on a tied up person (yes BDSM, its a skill thing,and not something too be concerned with because i understand not everybody finds dark carnal knowledge of interest... but some do (dont judge :-) what can i bring too a relationship, i love to use humor and make people laugh, ($50,000 a year income), monogamy (unless your bisexual) , stability, education ( i can send you to college), help you get a good job, help you buy a car, i will never yell at you, hit you in anger or be mean too you (my mother raised me to respect women, hold the door for them, be a good kind man , father and husband).... i love buying jewlery (Jareds) , clothes and shoes (because i want you too look good and feel good). I will not pay for a prostitute, but if you are or were a prostitute (no problem at all so long as your clean of disease). If you have children (no problem , im honorable and really enjoy children) Find me if you are seeking a new friend. Discretion is a given.

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Eye ColorBlack
Hair ColorSalt and pepper
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureLips
Body ArtVisible tattoo
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Thick
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusMarried
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Wants to RelocateNo
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleSurgical Technologist

Looking For

Must haveThoughtfullness, Passiveness
My perfect matchA unique women. I am attracted to feminine women. Dresses, skirts, heels, some make up. Most american women dont care what they look like.
Our first dateCoffee and coversation. I expect nothing.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMaster
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Dacryphilia, Defilement, Depilation / shaving, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Fisting, Food play, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Kidnapping, Mummification, Needle play, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
My most pleasurable encounter wasI lead her blindfolded, hands cuffed and naked into the back yard. Tied rope to center of circle. Flogged her as she walked in a circle. She had an orgasim.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A couple times a week
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Group sex no swapping
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Intimate gatherings in my home, Movies, Don't like going out

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isGreat with the right partner
Sex toys:Anal beads, Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Office supplies, All of the above and more!
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Nothing. Im a sexually adventurous person

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyI wish to make two women orgasim at the same time.
Fantasy sex partner:A submissive bisexual masochist who enjoys being flogged while tied up to another women.

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Use safety words:Sometimes
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:Hummmmm ....what to wear,what to wear.
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Belt, Wooden Spoon, Other
Response:Pouting / Crying
Pain level:No Limits